Mom-of-three Kristin Cavallari does not hold back in her new book, Balancing in Heels: My Journey to Health, Happiness, and Making It All Work.
When I was in the middle of filming The Hills, I got a phone call from my publicist saying that Jay Cutler wanted to fly me to Chicago and take me on a date…I always thought of this as a pretty ballsy move, like you think very highly of yourself, and it turned me off a little." Years later, Cavallari discovered that Cutler wasn't the one to put in a call, but it was one of his Bears teammates. lifestyle — the clubbing and the superficial people." It was ultimately Cavallari's mom who reminded her daughter of Cutler's request, and a meet-and-greet was orchestrated.constantly lashing out at Conrad and others) was her way of her protecting herself."Because of all this, I did the only thing I knew how to do: put up a wall," she writes.But it took her a year to come around initially to finally give Cutler a shot. "Little did I know that I would end up marrying this man.
When Jay walked into the room, I knew that instant," she writes.
"I had a great boyfriend, Stephen, with whom I had a typical teenage romance," she writes in her book.
"He was my entire world, and we loved hard and fought hard…
I had known for years and saw what jerk he was to women…
My gut told me thousand times to run the other way, but my insecurity kept me around for all of this BS." Then, there was the frog who wanted fame. I didn't figure this out until after we broke up," she reveals.
Either way, I was shocked and sad that I was being portrayed as anything but myself: a sarcastic, goofy girl who just wanted to have fun." Age was a huge factor, too. "I had some anger stored up from my parents' divorce and my new stepfamilies, which the producers saw.